Recognize, Reward and Remind -- Regardless
Tolerance means accepting others. Each person is a unique expression of specific character qualities in varying degrees of maturity.
Tolerance is not an excuse to ignore character deficiencies, however. When you care about someone, you accept them as they are and you want to help them mature to be their best.
Rather than overlooking weaknesses, tolerance means accepting a person in spite of those weaknesses. When you care about them as a person, you can also appreciate their strengths as you both mature in your values.
Do not lower your high standards. Keep your standards high, while encouraging others to pursue high values while accepting them with their weaknesses. The challenge is to help others recognize their own faults. If they don't, they won't be able to improve who they are. TerraCuddles Stickers are a fine way to reward and remind people about becoming the very best they can be.